Why dating in your 30s is NOT a hot mess

Have you seen those memes about the dating pool when you’re over 30? The one’s with the grimy water-less pool,  filled with molding junk? Hella funny! But, not entirely accurate. Continue reading “Why dating in your 30s is NOT a hot mess”

“You’re so exotic, you should date white men”. Seriously?

It is interesting how many times I hear this statement. We’re a quarter of the way through 2017, and I am still hearing these quips. It makes me think that maybe we’re not as an advanced a society as we’d like to think we are.

There is a level of racial stereotyping when it comes to such statements that leaves me deflated and robbed of my personality and many of the qualities that make me who I am. Momentarily, I am reduced to an exotic creature that needs to be claimed by an owner who appreciates exoticism.
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